Forget Everything You've Read: Buying a House is NOT For SuckersSome financial gurus say that a home is a liability, not an asset. But this landlord says they're wrong.

Recently, one of my favorite online financial gurus, Grant Cardone,put out a videothat exclaimed, "Buying a house is for suckers!"

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Before that, he wrote hereon狗万官方that, "Unless you have 20 million bucks in the bank, in cash, you have no business buying a house."

It's not the first time I've heard him say this, nor is he the only financial guru peddling this message today. Author James Altucherhas describedtime and time again how he's refused to own a house. Remit Sethi, the blogger behind theI Can Teach You to Be Richbrand, oftencautions readersto be wary of buying real estate. Even Robert Kiyosaki, author ofRich Dad Poor Dad, has become famous for informing the public that a home is a liability, not an asset.

Yet, for the majority of Americans, home ownership is clearly a part of the American Dream. Even a guy like me -- alandlordfor the past decade -- has had to stop and ask if there is any truth to this.Isowning a home truly for suckers, as Cardone said? Or was the headline over his业务Insidervideo just click bait?

Here, my goal is to explore the the three primary reasons Cardone and other financial gurus typically use for arguing against buying a house -- and offer a counter-argument.

1. It depends where you live.

Should you own your home? Maybe. But, maybe not. Real estateisexpensive. In fact, that's one of the primary reasons a lot of homeowners and landlords fail.

Besides the mortgage payment, the owner of the house also has to fix the plumbing, replace the roof, shovel the snow, paint the walls, replace the carpet -- you get the idea. There are a lot of hidden expenses above and beyond the cost of the mortgage to consider, and the older the property is, the greater those expenses tend to be.

然而,在许多领域,它仍然是便宜的than rent. For example, in my town, I can purchase a decent single family home for around $75,000, which works out to a mortgage of around $500 per month, with taxes and insurance included. That same house would rent for about $1,000 per month. So, does the average homeowner of a $75,000 house have $500 in house-related expenses each month? Not unless he or she owns a terrible home.

Therefore, where I live, at least, it makes a lot more financial sense to own versus buy -- even with the repairs and maintenance required. Of course, in some areas, it might be far less expensive to rent than to own, while in larger cities such as New York, San Francisco, Miami and other cities,the opposite is often true. All these facts add up to why you shouldn't take blanket advice from the internet when you make your decisions.

2. Owning a house makes you immobile -- or does it?

This was the primary reason Cardone put forward for his argument against buying a house. "To make money today, you need mobility," he wrote.

Personally, I found that weird -- because I've lived in the same county for 10 years, and I've made money. Lots of it.

So, do you truly need mobility to make money? Sure, mobility is fun. I remember "mobile life." Living out of a suitcase, sleeping on friends' couches, eating leftover cold mac 'n cheese I found in the back of the fridge. All hail mobility!

But, then, a funny thing happens: We grow up. We start having responsibility for things in our life. We actuallywantsome kind of stability. We want to raise our kids in the same place. We don't want to lose the friendships we have with our neighbors. We want to avoid having to move again and again and again because of someone else's decision.

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When you rent a home, yes, you can leave when your lease is up, which might be six or nine months down the road. Or, if you sell your house, you can be out in a month or two. Even better, if you need to move suddenly, you can just rent your house out to a tenant and -- gasp -- move! Now, you are building wealth through rental propertiesandyou are free to be mobile -- whatever that means.

3. Is real estate a bad investment?

Many financial bloggers love to point out that real estate values climb at a pace slower than that of stocks. Okay, that might be true, but it doesn't tell the whole story.

As famed economist and Nobel prize winner Robert Shiller has pointed out, using theS&P/Case-Shiller Index, home values over the past 100 years have appreciated, on average, at nearly the same rate as inflation: around 3 percent.

So, should we immediately reject buying a house because it doesn't appreciate fast enough?

Of course not. Real estate appreciation is just one of several benefits to owning property. When you own real estate, you don't usually pay 100 percent cash for it. Instead, you obtain a loan and use a small down payment to take possession. That way, although the price of your property may increase only 3 percent, your actual return on investment could be significantly higher.

The largest drawback to renting

The bottom line is, should you buy a house? I have no idea; maybe you should, and maybe you shouldn't.

But, if you base your decision on a financial guru telling you that "buying a house is for suckers," we need to talk. In his video, Grant Cardone said that, "The best investment you can make is to have choices and freedom." I couldn't agree more. And when you choose to rent, you give up a sizable portion of your freedom to live the way you want to live; you hand that freedom over to a landlord like me.

When you own a house, on the other hand, no one is going to come kick you out because he or she has made a decision for the property that doesn't include you. You won't be forced to move your kids to another, less desirable, school district. No one will arbitrarily increase your rent because the housing market has improved, decreasing the number of homes and apartments available in your city.

Further, no one is going to refuse you the ability to paint your bedroom the color you want, or to put in gorgeous new hardwood floors. In other words, when you own a house, no one is going to tell you what to do.

But do go ahead. Keep renting. I'll keepbuying rental propertiesand growing my own wealth. I'll keep telling you to clean your deck, I'll continue to deny you permission for your boyfriend to move in.

I may also decide to raise your rent, because I need an extra latte or two this month.

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Now, that's "freedom."