3 Ways Women Can Turn Fear of Failure Into Fearless ActionHow do we step out of the shadow of public opinion and the need for perfection? We embrace fearlessness.

I have to admit that I was initially shocked by the following two statistics highlighted in the 2017 American Express Open report on the state of women-owned businesses in the U.S.:

• Close to 90 percent have zero full-time employees.
• Only 3 percent of female founders ever break the million-dollar mark in annual sales.

Given the fact that women aretaking the entrepreneurial plungeat twice the rate of men, it surprised me that most of them are not scaling. Are they afraid of the risks associated? Is it outright fear of failure? For many women, the idea of being responsible for both their own livelihood and that of others can be daunting. And most of the time it takes employees to be able to scale a business over the million-dollar mark.

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The answers to these questions partially stems from how we are raised. Girls are often encouraged to be harmonious, be nice and get along with everyone. This can easily manifest intopeople pleasing. We want everyone to like us. Because of this, and the media's portrayal of women, girls are prone to anexternal locus of control. We learn from a very young age that all eyes are on us -- to be very careful in all we do and how we do it.

因此,女性倾向于精益求精n all things. We often take criticism very personally -- we internalize it and marinate on it. We learn to not draw too much attention to ourselves, for fear of what others will think of us. Boys, on the other hand, are encouraged to fall, fail and flounder, all for the sake of learning.

I watch hundreds of aspiring female entrepreneurs inch forward slowly, waiting to reveal what they're working on until it's totally ready… Until it's perfect. In some cases, they never even launch. We must teach girls that their locus of control is "internal" and encourage them to embrace the mantra, "Done is better than perfect."

Like most girls, I was never taught tothink big. I watched my mother focus her energy on guarding and protecting her family -- rightfully so, this was her priority. Everything was done in order to give me and my siblings better opportunities. Women business owners with children at home often define risks in terms of family finances, personal time and personal reputation. Until 20 years ago, women had virtually no high-net-worth female entrepreneurial role models. This is slowly changing.

Finally, women are taught that we need to do it all to have it all. Within my community, I see women juggling every aspect of their business, reluctant to delegate even basic administrative tasks or outsource aspects of their business that are outside their core expertise. They will fiddle, struggle and procrastinate before they will invest in an outside resource. For many, there is a limiting belief or a scarcity mindset that is compromising their business growth potential.

How do we step out of the shadow of public opinion and the need for perfection? We embrace fearlessness, which we develop by practicing making decisionsoutside of our comfort zone. We can start by finding examples to emulate, owning our achievements and resilience and confidently pushing ourselves.

1. Find inspiring women to emulate

Statistically speaking, women at the top of their fields are harder to find than men (only three of the 25wealthiest Americans are women and the percentage of women Fortune 500 CEOs is less than5 percent). But they are out there, and finding them is well worth your effort, as it will increase your chances for success.

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When you do find them, be sure to check yourself about the intimidation factor. Yes, youcanget there! Remember, even Tina Fey, Natalie Portman, Kate Winslet, Jodie Foster and Sigourney Weavertalk aboutself-doubt andimposter syndrome,所以你知道你并不孤单。

Makea list of the qualities的se women have that make them successful that you need most and work on developing them. Just make sure you aren't being too hard on yourself, because there are likely plenty of times you've been resilient in the face of great odds and persevered. Your inexperience in these new areas could be your greatest strength.

In her2015 Harvard Commencement speech, Natalie Portman talks about trusting yourself:

Sometimes your insecurities and your inexperience may lead you to embrace other people's expectations, standards or values, but you can harness that inexperience to carve out your own path.

2. Recognize your achievements and resilience

Perspective truly is everything, so what's yours?Celebrating your milestonesalong the way is one effective method of honoring your accomplishments. Another is to put yourself out there time and again, understanding that fear is a natural response to pursuing what is worthwhile.

It's not required that you don't have fear (because we all do aroundvulnerability) -- you're simply urged to do it, anyway. You must take risks from a place of purpose so strong that you're willing to be uncomfortable as you grow. It also means we must face our own biggest critic: ourselves.

In akeynote speech by Brené Brown她说,关于人性:"We're so self-critical, and….there is an ideal of what you're supposed to be. And what a lot of us end up doing is we orphan the parts of ourselves that don't fit with that ideal of who we're supposed to be."

Oftentimes, embracing those banished parts of ourselves gives us the opportunity to maximize our courage and strength, and deepen our perspective. Self-inventory can do wonders to remind us what our true strengths are -- strengths we may have forgotten about when fear got in the way.

3. Trust your talents enough to push yourself

There's a reason why fewer than 3 percent of all women entrepreneurs get to $1M in revenue, despite the fact that for past decade, women-owned businesses have grown faster than the national average. The commonfear of taking calculated risksis often at the heart of it, especially financial risks.

We have to surround ourselves with people who willchallenge usto take our businesses to the next level. People who are willing to check us when they hear us talk about our lack of skills or resources. There are significant resources and infinite possibilities in the world; we have to believe we are good enough to not only claim them, but also to run after them.

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We women often have的advantage of heightened intuition, that quieter voice within that already knows what our next best move is. Act on it fearlessly and watch your business take off.

Remember, you have all it takes to take the "less" and turn it into fearless!

(ByFelena Hanson. Hanson is the founder ofHera Hub, a spa-inspired shared workspace and community for female entrepreneurs. She is the author of 'Flight Club -- Rebel, Reinvent and Thrive: How to Launch Your Dream Business.')